[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":-1},["ShallowReactive",2],{"site-info":3,"topic-stories-infidelity":5,"stat-not-helpful-{\"challenge\":\"infidelity\"}":92,"stat-topic-share-{\"challenge\":\"infidelity\"}":162,"stat-most-helpful-{\"challenge\":\"infidelity\"}":176},{"testSite":4},false,{"items":6,"total":89,"page":90,"pageSize":91},[7,32,51,68],{"slug":8,"title":9,"excerpt":12,"topicTags":15,"yearsMarriedBand":19,"separationCountBand":20,"outcome":21,"twoPerspective":4,"publishedAt":22,"image":23},"one-of-us-left-home-in-our-first-6-years-and-we-re-still-together-3bf3d2",{"en":10,"sw":11},"One of us left home in our first 6 years - and we're still together","Mmoja wetu aliondoka nyumbani katika miaka yetu 6 ya kwanza - na bado tuko pamoja",{"en":13,"sw":14},"We have been married for 6 to 10 years. Ours is a customary marriage. We have one child together. We live in Western.","Tumeoana kwa miaka 6 hadi 10. Ndoa yetu ni ya aina ya ya kimila. Tuna mtoto mmoja pamoja. Tunaishi Magharibi.",[16,17,18],"in-laws","infidelity","separation","6-10","1","together","2026-11-03T07:13:38.431Z",{"file":24,"alt":25,"kind":28,"photographer":29,"sourceUrl":30,"licence":31},"story-table-silence",{"en":26,"sw":27},"A couple sitting apart in silence at the table","Wanandoa wameketi mbali kimya mezani","illustrative","Alex Green","https:\u002F\u002Fwww.pexels.com\u002Fphoto\u002F5699694\u002F","Pexels License",{"slug":33,"title":34,"excerpt":37,"topicTags":40,"yearsMarriedBand":41,"separationCountBand":42,"outcome":21,"twoPerspective":4,"publishedAt":43,"image":44},"unfaithfulness-nearly-ended-our-marriage-in-year-5-here-s-how-we-built-5f560c",{"en":35,"sw":36},"Unfaithfulness nearly ended our marriage in year 5. Here's how we built it back","Kukosa uaminifu karibu kumaliza ndoa yetu katika mwaka wa 5. Hivi ndivyo tulivyoijenga upya",{"en":38,"sw":39},"We have been married for 11 to 20 years. Ours is a islamic marriage. We have three or more children. We live in Nairobi.","Tumeoana kwa miaka 11 hadi 20. Ndoa yetu ni ya aina ya ya Kiislamu. Tuna watoto watatu au zaidi. Tunaishi Nairobi.",[17],"11-20","none","2026-11-01T22:48:52.283Z",{"file":45,"alt":46,"kind":28,"photographer":49,"sourceUrl":50,"licence":31},"story-cafe-hands",{"en":47,"sw":48},"A couple holding hands across a cafe table","Wanandoa wameshikana mikono mezani mgahawani","Gustavo Fring","https:\u002F\u002Fwww.pexels.com\u002Fphoto\u002F7156323\u002F",{"slug":52,"title":53,"excerpt":56,"topicTags":59,"yearsMarriedBand":19,"separationCountBand":42,"outcome":21,"twoPerspective":4,"publishedAt":61,"image":62},"unfaithfulness-nearly-ended-our-marriage-in-year-7-here-s-how-we-built-3e029a",{"en":54,"sw":55},"Unfaithfulness nearly ended our marriage in year 7. Here's how we built it back","Kukosa uaminifu karibu kumaliza ndoa yetu katika mwaka wa 7. Hivi ndivyo tulivyoijenga upya",{"en":57,"sw":58},"We have been married for 6 to 10 years. Ours is a come-we-stay, later formalised marriage. We have one child together. We live in Coast.","Tumeoana kwa miaka 6 hadi 10. Ndoa yetu ni ya aina ya kuja tukae, baadaye ikahalalishwa. Tuna mtoto mmoja pamoja. Tunaishi Pwani.",[60,16,17],"money","2026-10-29T21:10:58.817Z",{"file":63,"alt":64,"kind":28,"photographer":49,"sourceUrl":67,"licence":31},"story-cafe-embrace",{"en":65,"sw":66},"A couple embracing over hot drinks in a cafe","Wanandoa wakikumbatiana wakinywa vinywaji vya moto mgahawani","https:\u002F\u002Fwww.pexels.com\u002Fphoto\u002F7156314\u002F",{"slug":69,"title":70,"excerpt":73,"topicTags":76,"yearsMarriedBand":41,"separationCountBand":79,"outcome":21,"twoPerspective":80,"publishedAt":81,"image":82},"we-separated-3-times-in-our-first-20-years-and-we-re-still-together-0daf03",{"en":71,"sw":72},"We separated 3 times in our first 20 years - and we're still together","Tulitengana mara 3 katika miaka yetu 20 ya kwanza - na bado tuko pamoja",{"en":74,"sw":75},"We have been married for 11 to 20 years. Ours is a customary marriage. We have three or more children. We live in Coast.","Tumeoana kwa miaka 11 hadi 20. Ndoa yetu ni ya aina ya ya kimila. Tuna watoto watatu au zaidi. Tunaishi Pwani.",[60,17,77,18,78,16],"intimacy","communication","2-3",true,"2026-10-06T18:14:15.231Z",{"file":83,"alt":84,"kind":28,"photographer":87,"sourceUrl":88,"licence":31},"story-sofa-dog",{"en":85,"sw":86},"A couple relaxing on the sofa with their dog","Wanandoa wakipumzika kochini na mbwa wao","Andres Ayrton","https:\u002F\u002Fwww.pexels.com\u002Fphoto\u002F6578770\u002F",4,1,6,{"id":93,"title":94,"as_of":97,"version":98,"n":99,"suppressed":4,"data":100,"labels":134,"summary":159},"not-helpful",{"en":95,"sw":96},"What did not help","Kisichosaidia","2026-11-13T03:41:25.145Z","3.1",118,{"kind":101,"n":99,"multi":80,"cells":102},"distribution",[103,107,111,115,119,123,127,131],{"key":104,"count":105,"pct":106,"suppressed":4},"silent_treatment",63,53.4,{"key":108,"count":109,"pct":110,"suppressed":4},"taking_sides",43,36.4,{"key":112,"count":113,"pct":114,"suppressed":4},"too_many_people",37,31.4,{"key":116,"count":117,"pct":118,"suppressed":4},"threatening_divorce",34,28.8,{"key":120,"count":121,"pct":122,"suppressed":4},"social_media",28,23.7,{"key":124,"count":125,"pct":126,"suppressed":4},"revenge",14,11.9,{"key":128,"count":129,"pct":130,"suppressed":4},"leaving_home",13,11,{"key":132,"count":133,"pct":133,"suppressed":4},"other",0,{"silent_treatment":135,"taking_sides":138,"too_many_people":141,"threatening_divorce":144,"social_media":147,"revenge":150,"leaving_home":153,"other":156},{"en":136,"sw":137},"Silent treatment","Kunyamaziana",{"en":139,"sw":140},"Friends or family taking sides","Marafiki au familia kuegemea upande mmoja",{"en":142,"sw":143},"Involving too many people","Kuhusisha watu wengi mno",{"en":145,"sw":146},"Threatening divorce","Kutishia talaka",{"en":148,"sw":149},"Social media","Mitandao ya kijamii",{"en":151,"sw":152},"Revenge","Kulipiza kisasi",{"en":154,"sw":155},"Leaving home","Kuondoka nyumbani",{"en":157,"sw":158},"Other","Nyingine",{"en":160,"sw":161},"The thing people most often said made it worse: silent treatment (53% of 118).","Kitu ambacho watu walisema mara nyingi kilifanya mambo kuwa mabaya zaidi: kunyamaziana (53% ya 118).",{"id":163,"title":164,"as_of":97,"version":98,"n":167,"suppressed":4,"data":168,"labels":172,"summary":173},"topic-share",{"en":165,"sw":166},"How many named this challenge","Wangapi walitaja changamoto hii",529,{"kind":169,"unit":170,"denominator":167,"numerator":99,"value":171,"suppressed":4},"figure","pct",22.3,{},{"en":174,"sw":175},"22% of 529 people who described a hard season named unfaithfulness as one of the main challenges.","22% ya watu 529 walioeleza kipindi kigumu walitaja kukosa uaminifu kama mojawapo ya changamoto kuu.",{"id":177,"title":178,"as_of":97,"version":98,"n":99,"suppressed":4,"data":181,"labels":217,"summary":252},"most-helpful",{"en":179,"sw":180},"What helped most","Kilichosaidia zaidi",{"kind":101,"n":99,"multi":4,"cells":182},[183,187,191,195,199,203,205,208,210,212,214,216],{"key":184,"count":185,"pct":186,"suppressed":4},"nothing_helped",32,27.1,{"key":188,"count":189,"pct":190,"suppressed":4},"faith_leader",22,18.6,{"key":192,"count":193,"pct":194,"suppressed":4},"my_family",20,16.9,{"key":196,"count":197,"pct":198,"suppressed":4},"elders",12,10.2,{"key":200,"count":201,"pct":202,"suppressed":4},"counsellor",10,8.5,{"key":204,"count":201,"pct":202,"suppressed":4},"friends",{"key":206,"count":207,"pct":207,"suppressed":80},"spouse_family",null,{"key":209,"count":207,"pct":207,"suppressed":80},"book_course",{"key":211,"count":207,"pct":207,"suppressed":80},"mentor_couple",{"key":213,"count":207,"pct":207,"suppressed":80},"online_groups",{"key":215,"count":133,"pct":133,"suppressed":4},"no_one",{"key":132,"count":133,"pct":133,"suppressed":4},{"nothing_helped":218,"faith_leader":221,"my_family":224,"elders":227,"counsellor":230,"friends":233,"spouse_family":236,"book_course":239,"mentor_couple":242,"online_groups":245,"no_one":248,"other":251},{"en":219,"sw":220},"Nothing helped","Hakuna kilichosaidia",{"en":222,"sw":223},"Pastor, imam or faith leader","Mchungaji, imamu au kiongozi wa dini",{"en":225,"sw":226},"My family","Familia yangu",{"en":228,"sw":229},"Elders","Wazee",{"en":231,"sw":232},"Professional counsellor","Mshauri nasaha wa kitaalamu",{"en":234,"sw":235},"Friends","Marafiki",{"en":237,"sw":238},"My spouse's family","Familia ya mwenzi wangu",{"en":240,"sw":241},"A book, course or seminar","Kitabu, kozi au semina",{"en":243,"sw":244},"Mentor or older couple","Mshauri au wanandoa wazee",{"en":246,"sw":247},"Online groups or social media","Vikundi vya mtandaoni au mitandao ya kijamii",{"en":249,"sw":250},"No one","Hakuna mtu",{"en":157,"sw":158},{"en":253,"sw":254},"Asked what helped most, the most common answer was nothing helped (27% of 118).","Walipoulizwa kilichosaidia zaidi, jibu lililotolewa zaidi lilikuwa hakuna kilichosaidia (27% ya 118)."]