What Kenyan couples tell us
Every number here comes from live answers and shows how many people it is based on. We never show a figure behind fewer than 10 people.

Together again after leaving home
57%
Based on 272 responses · updated 13 November 2026 · How we count
Ever left home because of conflict
45%
Based on 644 responses · updated 13 November 2026 · How we count
Findings
How many couples get back together after one of them leaves home?
Live numbers from Kenyan couples: how many separated, how many came back, and how long they were apart.
How common is it for a spouse to leave home during conflict?
How many Kenyan couples had one spouse leave home because of conflict, and how many times.
The most common challenges in Kenyan marriages
Money, in-laws, trust, communication: the challenges Kenyan couples name most, and how they change over the years.
Which year of marriage is the hardest?
When the hardest season began for Kenyan couples, by year of marriage.
What helps couples get through a hard season?
What Kenyan couples say helped most, and the turning points that changed things.
What makes marriage problems worse?
The things Kenyan couples say did not help, and what ended it for those who separated for good.
How satisfied are couples with their marriage today?
Marriage satisfaction (CSI-4) among Kenyan couples who answered, and how it relates to where they found help.
Do husbands and wives agree on their biggest challenge?
When both spouses answered separately, how often did they name the same biggest challenge?
How we collect and count: Methodology